Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from two different continents.

When you’re in a long-distance relationship, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Time zones, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel impossible.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t an option.

Then we found out we could have a legal virtual wedding.

At first, we thought it was some kind of loophole. But online wedding after researching, we learned that states like Utah allow fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re 100% valid.

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We verified our identities and filled out a quick form.
• We booked our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our small circle to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we joined the call, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my home office. My fiancé said it from their temporary station.

It was real. It was easy. And it was ours.

The officiant made it feel official. The ceremony was short but meaningful. And we received our certified marriage certificate immediately — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle joint bank accounts, and every agency has accepted it — no issues at all.

If you’re separated by borders, don’t wait. Online marriage is legal, and it’s a modern way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that love doesn’t need borders — and that what matters most is the commitment.